Do you get the feeling that he wants more? Do you wish you knew what he was thinking? Is he nice or is being nice to me? Men really should be easier to read but often it us nothing less comfortable then a wet wool sweater trying to decide if he wants you to be his girlfriend.
These observations should help.
Men flirt differently.
They are so ingrained with the idea that touching a woman even casually is taboo.
Is he offering his hand when you stand up, brushing the hair from your face, giving you a hug rather than a handshake? Does his leg lightly rest against yours under the table? One of these is probably enough, two and the answer is a resounding yes he wants to be your boyfriend.
Men speak with other men as a rule considerably more confidently than they do with women.
At a party is he focused on you? Is he walking across a crowded room to speak with you first? Do you find him looking away from you quite often? If he's looking away quickly it's because he's been looking at you for some time.
He wants you to be his girlfriend.
The most obvious sign, speaking of future events.
"Did you hear that is playing next week?", or " Have you heard of this new Laotian restaurant, my friends went last week and said it was wonderful, I'm thinking about trying it this weekend".
These may seem so obvious but many women miss the fact that he's fishing and wants you to say "Oh I love them" or "I've never tried Laotian food".
He wants you to be his girlfriend, he just needs a little help.
Strange creatures men, confident at one moment terrified in the next.
Look for these signs if you're wondering if he wants you to be his girlfriend.