It is sad when a relationship dissolves.
It is even sadder when you blame yourself.
After the tears and the misery that usually follows a breakup, it is time to move on.
Either in another direction or in the direction of your ex! Remember that if your ex loved you once, chances are that if you make the right amendments to your personality, he/she will love you again.
  Get moving Have you lost shape? Are you only a reflection of the sexy person you used to be? Join a gym.
Tell your trainer that you want to get back in shape and look sexy once again.
This will give you a new found confidence.
You will discover that you not only look better, but feel better too! Exercise changes the way we look at life.
This is because we have more energy and are therefore more alert.
This is attractive to any member of the opposite sex.
  Get a new look The way you look is what attracted your ex to you in the first place! Have you become dowdy or sloppy over the years? Now that you are on the road to fitness, go to a hair stylist and get a new hair cut.
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A new color will also go a long way in attracting your ex.
When he does see you he/she will be amazed at the transformation.
  Keep communicating Remember that the door of communication should always be left open.
You need to make sure that you talk to your ex, let him/her know that you do want to change and you really believe that the relationship is worth salvaging.
This will make him/her at least think about getting back together   Cannot wait forever At no time should your ex believe that you will wait forever for him/her.
Never sell yourself short.
By now you have a new look and a new body, let him/her know that you will give your relationship this much time and no more.
You will move on.