If a man says he loves you, how often should he call you? That's not an easy question to answer, is it? Naturally, when we're involved with a man we're crazy about, we want to hear from him as much as possible. Unfortunately, most men just aren't that attentive and you may find yourself wondering why he doesn't call as often as you'd like him to and if there's anything you can do to get him to call. If you wish he'd ring you up occasionally just to tell you he loves you or to see how your day is going, you can make that happen. There are subtle ways you can silently persuade a man to call you more than he is now.

The question of how often should he call you doesn't have just one answer. The truth is that a man can be head over heels in love with you, yet barely call you. The reason behind this is simple. Men just don't view telephone calls the same way we do. Most of us, when we first fall in love with our guy, could gladly spend hours on the phone just talking about mundane things. Men view the phone more as a direct communication tool. If they want to set up plans with you or they want to check up on how you are, they'll call. The rest of the time they're more than happy to wait for you to call.

If you'd prefer this part of your relationship to be more balanced, you've got to do just one small thing. If you've been picking up the slack when it comes to telephone calls, you need to stop doing that. If you've been calling him much more frequently than he's been calling you, it's a good idea to stop calling him for a few days. Asking a man to call more often won't work. Nagging him about how you wish he'd call, won't make him do it. However, not calling him will result in him calling you. Men always respond to actions more than they do to words, so show him that if he wants to talk with you, he needs to do the calling more often, because you won't.