If you just started a new relationship or have been married for twenty years, when it comes to talking with your lover about the desire to watch adult movies during sex, is never easy.
However, in reality you'll never know how they will answer unless you ask.
Instead of hiding it like it's a dirty little secret, the open communication can improve your sex life and improve other aspects of your relationship.
It's normal to be worried about your lover's reaction, use a third-party indirect question such as: "Bill told me over coffee that Linda and him watch channel X while making love.
Have you ever imagined watching adult movies during sex? Apparently they really like it.
" The preframe for this conversation is that watching adult movies is a healthy medium.
Bill and Linda improved their sex life through stimulating images and auditory enhancers of groans and dirty talk.
By asking her if she likes it before you even suggest you're into it, will loosen up the pressure on you and give you an answer without facing judgement.
If your lover says, "sure let's check some out," keep in mind while the movie is rolling to stare at her often.
Tell her she is sexier than all the women.
Repeat some of the dirty lines aloud as if she were one of porn stars.
Guide your lover into the positions.
Always stay in the moment instead of becoming fixated on the screen.
Afterwards, ask her what else she wants to try.
Watching adult movies with your lover is an excellent gateway to more kinky arts.