Basic Greeting Customs

• Indian society is one that values respect for elders. Therefore, in an introduction or meeting, greet the eldest members of the group first and work down towards the youngest. When you leave the group, make a parting gesture -- say goodbye -- to each person making sure not to leave anyone out. When addressing seniors, it is not advisable to use their first name but instead refer to them as sir or madam. Indian society generally frowns upon excessive or unrequested physical contact. So if no one seems to be shaking hands, or you want to be safe, simply use the traditional namaste.
  
  

As a Guest

• As with many societies, Indian society expects guests to arrive on time. Always assume that you are to remove your shoes before entering someone's home and especially before entering a temple. When the hosts first offer you food or refreshments, politely decline them. Do not worry, because the offer will be consistently repeated. This is just a common gesture of politeness. Food will often be served in order of seniority so wait your turn. Never eat -- either with hands or utensil -- with your left hand. When you are getting full, let a little food remain on your plate as it indicates you don't want another helping. An empty plate suggests you do. Remember that Hindus and Sikhs don't eat beef and Muslims refrain from drinking alcohol or consuming pork.
  
  

In Business

• Indian society has had deep influence upon its business culture as well. Again, punctuality is expected for meetings, as are detailed materials delivered in advance of the meeting. Keep your calm because business is not done as hostilely or aggressively as it may be done in the West. As the Kwintessential site states, "lose your temper and you will lose face." Impatient attitudes are not respected. The same site suggests that you do not overemphasize the legal aspects of a business situation, as this will not appeal to your Indian colleagues. Expect to offer concessions to your partners and ask for your own.
  
  

Decency

• Much of India, especially the elements found outside the urban areas, has traditional social outlooks. This means that people dress and conduct themselves conservatively. This holds especially true for women, as short or provocative clothing is not appreciated. Refrain from public displays of affection to ensure that no one is offended. In the cities, and in some locales, more liberal dress codes can apply, but be discerning and as respectful as possible.
  
  

Gifts

• A man should not give any gifts to a woman unless the gift is from a man and a woman. Never gift a Muslim something made of pigskin or liquor of any kind and don't present a Hindu with a leather object. Don't open a gift when you receive it but wait until later at your residence. Use red, green or yellow when wrapping presents, since these are lucky colors. Finally, if you are considering bringing or giving flowers, avoid any white flowers or frangipani. They're typically used during funerals.