Are you trying to figure out if your guy loves you or not? Is it getting more and more frustrating trying to read all the little signs he puts out? Is he sweet and lovable one day then cold and distant the next and you have no idea what that's about? Truth be told, men themselves often have trouble understanding their own emotions, but if you pay close attention to the little details, you should be able to figure out where you stand.
Are you in the picture? When guys hook up with a girlfriend, they'll sometimes just call her when they want to go out with a group or when he's feeling lonely and there's no one else around.
This guy isn't really into having a true relationship and is just playing for a while.
When a guy gets serious, he wants to spend real time with you and he wants that time to be pleasurable for you.
He'll go out of his way to ensure you're having fun and that you like being with him.
Can you tell him about yourself? Have you tried telling him about your background, your work, your life, maybe even some troubles that are dogging you? And does he always bring the conversation back to him? Sure, there are some good guys out there who tend to be a little self-centered and their main topic of conversation is themselves.
But, if he just shrugs off everything you tell him about yourself, he's really not that interested in knowing about you.
Even the self-centered guy will listen to you a bit if he's into you.
Is a commitment on the horizon? Don't listen to any excuse a guy will give you for continuing to play the field.
He's not serious.
He's not into you enough.
He just wants to play.
Move on.
When a man starts to feel even a tickling of emotions for a woman, he is quick to drop all other women and he's usually pretty fast in bringing up the men in your life.
Read carefully the little signs your guy shows you, and you'll be able to tell if he loves you.