Stop Living in a Sexless Marriage - 2 Tips For Frustrated Women
Despite the saucy tone to the title of this article living in a sexless marriage is not simply a matter of a lack of sex that can be remedied by behaving sexually different to turn them on.
Instead these tips revolve around the emotions and deep seated problems within his life, expectation and your relationship.
Many people including women seem to think of men as being driven entirely by their penis but this is untrue and men have just as many emotions and issues as a woman can and this can affect their ability to make love and their want to make love.
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Feed Their Ego Many women may roll their eyes at this and complain about men being little boys at heart.
Many women also refuse to do this thinking it is a step backwards or something they feel should not be done because it is demeaning to them or to their husbands or both; I have a different point of view however.
Women like to feel secure and protected by their man and most admit this being more in touch wither their base emotions than men are, the alternate end for the male is to feel powerful, respected and wanted like his cavemen ancestors would be because they brought home the big game meat and drove off the predators.
Nothing much has changed with our biology though our society has changed immensely.
By stroking his ego a bit he feels more like the man he wants to be especially if his job or lifestyle may make him feel emasculated.
This lack of manliness for lack of a better term may be a part of the problem.
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Realize It Is Not Your Problem Many women also approach this issue form the wrong angle thinking that it is somehow their own fault.
Perhaps they have put on some weight or not be as pretty as they once were (who ever is!) and think that their men are turned OFF them because of their physical appearance.
While some men may be that shallow the statistics say that the love in these marriages is still there and that love creates desire despite the advances of age.
So why if the love is there is the desire not? This is a many faceted problem that has too many issues to explore in this simple article but the lesson to learn is just because you went up a size in dress does not mean this inhibits desire or love, in fact as long as you are confident in your own body this is a huge turn on to men even if they do have a serious problem with sex.
Instead these tips revolve around the emotions and deep seated problems within his life, expectation and your relationship.
Many people including women seem to think of men as being driven entirely by their penis but this is untrue and men have just as many emotions and issues as a woman can and this can affect their ability to make love and their want to make love.
1.
Feed Their Ego Many women may roll their eyes at this and complain about men being little boys at heart.
Many women also refuse to do this thinking it is a step backwards or something they feel should not be done because it is demeaning to them or to their husbands or both; I have a different point of view however.
Women like to feel secure and protected by their man and most admit this being more in touch wither their base emotions than men are, the alternate end for the male is to feel powerful, respected and wanted like his cavemen ancestors would be because they brought home the big game meat and drove off the predators.
Nothing much has changed with our biology though our society has changed immensely.
By stroking his ego a bit he feels more like the man he wants to be especially if his job or lifestyle may make him feel emasculated.
This lack of manliness for lack of a better term may be a part of the problem.
2.
Realize It Is Not Your Problem Many women also approach this issue form the wrong angle thinking that it is somehow their own fault.
Perhaps they have put on some weight or not be as pretty as they once were (who ever is!) and think that their men are turned OFF them because of their physical appearance.
While some men may be that shallow the statistics say that the love in these marriages is still there and that love creates desire despite the advances of age.
So why if the love is there is the desire not? This is a many faceted problem that has too many issues to explore in this simple article but the lesson to learn is just because you went up a size in dress does not mean this inhibits desire or love, in fact as long as you are confident in your own body this is a huge turn on to men even if they do have a serious problem with sex.
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