Are you trying to figure out how to get him back after he dumps you? You are probably quite devastated now because you still love your boyfriend very much.
A break up is always heartbreaking, especially if you are the one who is being dumped.
However, all hope is not lost.
Being dumped does not mean you will lose your boyfriend forever.
In fact, there are many people just like you but they still manage to get their boyfriend back.
Therefore, it is important that you don't lose hope.
The key to getting your boyfriend back is to make him chase you instead of you chasing him.
That means there are certain things that you must not do.
No matter how much you want to get your boyfriend back, it is important that you do not perform acts of desperation.
Performing acts of desperation will only push him further away.
For example, you should not call him several times per day.
You should not send him text messages after text messages.
The more you do these things, the more desperate you seem to be.
Instead, you will fare better if you do this.
I know this advice may sound very controversial and unconventional but it has worked for many people.
So, what should you do? Well, write him a letter.
In the letter, let him know that you appreciate him and the happy memories both of you have shared together.
Let him know that you agree with the break up and that the break up is probably the best thing for both of you.
Just doing this alone can work wonders.
Why is that so? Well, human beings want what they cannot have.
If you send him this letter, he will realized that you are not going to chase him anymore.
He will start to be afraid of losing you.
Just the thought of losing you alone will cause him to chase you instead.