Being the other woman or mistress of a married man is perhaps one of the most emotional rollercoaster relationships.
If you are the other woman, this might help.
Upside of being the other woman On the upside the secretive and furtive nature of an affair makes for scintillating sex and a feeling that you are living your life in a movie.
As the other woman, the stolen moments you snatch together are deeply treasured, meaningful and precious.
Downside of being the other woman The downside of being the mistress of a married man is that you never have him entirely to yourself.
You cannot be open in public and don't have the pleasure of going out together for dinner, movies, theatre etc.
You may also feel guilt, shame, frustration and resentment - all understandable emotions.
When you know he is in a loveless, sexless and joyless marriage it is so frustrating that he cannot make the final decision to break free from a wife that he no longer loves.
Push/Pull Factor The push/pull factor is always at work in a love triangle.
He is pushed away by a wife who doesn't understand, appreciate or truly love him.
You, as the other woman, are pulling him towards you by offering and giving him love, appreciation, respect, and a promise of a loving future life together.
A strong and solid loving marriage can never be broken by another woman.
If the bonds of love, respect and appreciation are intact and solid in a marriage then a husband would not want or need to find love elsewhere.
If his eyes wander, then this means that the marriage is bad and broken.
He is seeking happiness, love, appreciation and contentment from you, his mistress, because he does not have this in his marriage.
And as the other woman, rest assured that you are not responsible for breaking up a good marriage.
How to help him break free If you are sure that you want your married lover to break free from his bad marriage and fully commit to you, there are certain things you can do and say.
If you are the other woman, this might help.
Upside of being the other woman On the upside the secretive and furtive nature of an affair makes for scintillating sex and a feeling that you are living your life in a movie.
As the other woman, the stolen moments you snatch together are deeply treasured, meaningful and precious.
Downside of being the other woman The downside of being the mistress of a married man is that you never have him entirely to yourself.
You cannot be open in public and don't have the pleasure of going out together for dinner, movies, theatre etc.
You may also feel guilt, shame, frustration and resentment - all understandable emotions.
When you know he is in a loveless, sexless and joyless marriage it is so frustrating that he cannot make the final decision to break free from a wife that he no longer loves.
Push/Pull Factor The push/pull factor is always at work in a love triangle.
He is pushed away by a wife who doesn't understand, appreciate or truly love him.
You, as the other woman, are pulling him towards you by offering and giving him love, appreciation, respect, and a promise of a loving future life together.
A strong and solid loving marriage can never be broken by another woman.
If the bonds of love, respect and appreciation are intact and solid in a marriage then a husband would not want or need to find love elsewhere.
If his eyes wander, then this means that the marriage is bad and broken.
He is seeking happiness, love, appreciation and contentment from you, his mistress, because he does not have this in his marriage.
And as the other woman, rest assured that you are not responsible for breaking up a good marriage.
How to help him break free If you are sure that you want your married lover to break free from his bad marriage and fully commit to you, there are certain things you can do and say.
- Ensure your time together is as perfect as you can make it.
Do not use this time to nag, issue ultimatums or make demands. - You could try the jealousy trick and openly date another man in the hope that your married lover will be inflamed with jealousy and finally commit to you.
- Pull him further towards you by casting a Love Spell yourself or getting a Love Spell professionally cast for you by a Witch or Spell Caster.
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