Save Your Marriage - Signs That Your Marriage is About to Hit the Rocks
More marriages die from neglect than anything else.
Often, it is simply a matter of life getting in the way.
Strangely, something as important as marriage gets ignored.
More than that, many relationships shift from suffering with neglect to a growing animosity and antipathy.
The innocent beginning of a crisis (neglect, lack of understanding, etc.
) can quickly spin into a crisis that puts the entire marriage at risk.
Of course, no problem that can ultimately lead to a divorce occurs over night, chances are that many factors which were left unattended to have accumulated to the present state or your marriage.
Prior to that stage at which the couple seek for a divorce, there must have been numerous signs that pointed towards the dissolution of the marriage.
However, no matter how bad a state your marriage is in now, divorce should not be an option because you can always take steps that can save your marriage and most times make your marriage better that it was before.
I will list some signs below that shows that your marriage is about to hit the rocks.
1.
Do you and your spouse constantly battle over small issues which rather than been resolved lead to bigger issues? 2.
Has threats and yelling become an everyday occurrence in your marriage? 3.
Do both of you desperately want to be accepted and loved, but neither feels like doing it? The more either of you tries, the further apart it appears you move.
4.
Do you fill a lot better in the absence of you spouse? 5.
Do you and your spouse leave like roommates rather than marital partners? 6.
Is your union experiencing perpetual name calling and tearing down of each other? 7.
Has your once open marriage now become shrouded in secrecy? 8.
Does your spouse now find fault in any thing you do or say? 9.
Has the level of communication in your marriage dwindled? 10.
Is your spouse now exhibiting violent tendencies? The above questions/signs and many more are very clear markers that your marriage is on the verge of dissolution.
When you notice one or more of the signs above in your marriage, it is an indication that something is about to go wrong therefore it would be appropriate to start making efforts to save your marriage.
In trying to save your marriage you have to be open to certain adjustments which at the end of the day would help you to accomplish your "save my marriage" desires.
Often, it is simply a matter of life getting in the way.
Strangely, something as important as marriage gets ignored.
More than that, many relationships shift from suffering with neglect to a growing animosity and antipathy.
The innocent beginning of a crisis (neglect, lack of understanding, etc.
) can quickly spin into a crisis that puts the entire marriage at risk.
Of course, no problem that can ultimately lead to a divorce occurs over night, chances are that many factors which were left unattended to have accumulated to the present state or your marriage.
Prior to that stage at which the couple seek for a divorce, there must have been numerous signs that pointed towards the dissolution of the marriage.
However, no matter how bad a state your marriage is in now, divorce should not be an option because you can always take steps that can save your marriage and most times make your marriage better that it was before.
I will list some signs below that shows that your marriage is about to hit the rocks.
1.
Do you and your spouse constantly battle over small issues which rather than been resolved lead to bigger issues? 2.
Has threats and yelling become an everyday occurrence in your marriage? 3.
Do both of you desperately want to be accepted and loved, but neither feels like doing it? The more either of you tries, the further apart it appears you move.
4.
Do you fill a lot better in the absence of you spouse? 5.
Do you and your spouse leave like roommates rather than marital partners? 6.
Is your union experiencing perpetual name calling and tearing down of each other? 7.
Has your once open marriage now become shrouded in secrecy? 8.
Does your spouse now find fault in any thing you do or say? 9.
Has the level of communication in your marriage dwindled? 10.
Is your spouse now exhibiting violent tendencies? The above questions/signs and many more are very clear markers that your marriage is on the verge of dissolution.
When you notice one or more of the signs above in your marriage, it is an indication that something is about to go wrong therefore it would be appropriate to start making efforts to save your marriage.
In trying to save your marriage you have to be open to certain adjustments which at the end of the day would help you to accomplish your "save my marriage" desires.
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