Here are some tips for guys looking to please that special someone while scoring a few brownie points for themselves.
Enlist help Ask for help in solving the problem! Oops did we say problem, we mean finding the best gift ever! Ask her friend or daughter to go shopping with you or to make a few gift suggestions.
Just be careful that the friend or daughter isn't suggesting something that they'd like themselves! Be lazy without her knowing Shop on line, it's easy, fast and they deliver the package to you, no parking lots or crowds to deal with.
And to make it even easier, most websites have holiday gift sections by category and/or price not that you put a price on your love..
..
Get what you deserve Ask for service.
The good stores, bricks and mortar or websites will be happy to help.
Think of them like a great hotel concierge.
Ask the sales representative for suggestions (they're often on commission and can see a guy coming for miles, just kidding).
Judge their suggestions by the type of questions they ask.
If they ask about your wife/girlfriend chances are they're interested in helping you find the right gift.
When shopping on line if you are not sure or need help, go to the contact us section and call or look for live chat and IM them.
Ask for the person to suggest something.
If they don't, find another site that will.
You deserve this level of service.
Make her wish come true Most websites have a wish list feature.
This couldn't be easier for you.
Here's how it works: 1.
She creates a wish list of items she'd die for in the store's wish list feature 2.
She emails the list or list access info to you 3.
You pick/buy the items, (she's worth more than one no? after all she's done half the work) 4.
The store sends the gifts to you! 5.
You're the man! Get in her drawers..
..
and closet If you decide to buy her an outfit or lingerie, make sure you have the right size.
Sneak a peek at her current garments and look for the size on the tag.
Be sure that you find an article that she's worn lately, not something from 1980 when we all might have been a different size! Just do it now! Don't wait until the day before, that's just way too much stress, no one needs that or the lousy gift you'll end up buying under the time pressure.
Getting it done early will ensure it's wrapped and under the tree and you'll have time to enjoy a little Christmas cheer.
If you want it to be a surprise and she's the type that just can't control the urge to peek, pretend that you haven't bought anything yet (torture her just a little).
This will make it even more fun.
A word to the wise be careful not to push this too far.
Amazing what you can learn by "actually" listening While we like to think that we're subtle, and really some of us ladies are but well most of us come close to hitting you over the head with our suggestions.
The next time you're together, listen for these hints - I wish I had a..
..
or wouldn't it be nice if..
...
Gentlemen, these are hints.
Now the key is to write it down so you don't forget.
Other suggestions, if she's on a diet (even if she is absolutely perfect just the way she is) don't buy her chocolate! If she hates cooking and/or cleaning don't even think about it.
On the other hand if she loves chocolate, seek out a rare type (use the internet to source).
If she's passionate about cooking, buy her an appliance she'd never splurge for herself.
On the cleaning front, it's rare to find one of us ladies who actually does like it so safe to say, stay away from cleaning things! Make it personal, a little effort goes a long way Most times we just like to know that you cared enough to make an effort, we'll likely fall in love with it just because you tried.
This is a great suggestion too if you are on a budget.
It doesn't have to cost a lot.
It could be a personal certificate for an evening of romance at home.
Here's one idea is a few easy steps: Prepare a relaxing bath 1.
Run a warm tub with a bath bomb (no we're not talking explosives here, you can get them at Lush or The Body Shop (no not the auto one, the store that sells beauty care products) or just go to the drug store and find bubble bath 2.
Light some candles, pour a glass of wine or martini and play her favourite music 3.
A chance to relax and pamper herself, wow it will likely be the gift that gives back!
Enlist help Ask for help in solving the problem! Oops did we say problem, we mean finding the best gift ever! Ask her friend or daughter to go shopping with you or to make a few gift suggestions.
Just be careful that the friend or daughter isn't suggesting something that they'd like themselves! Be lazy without her knowing Shop on line, it's easy, fast and they deliver the package to you, no parking lots or crowds to deal with.
And to make it even easier, most websites have holiday gift sections by category and/or price not that you put a price on your love..
..
Get what you deserve Ask for service.
The good stores, bricks and mortar or websites will be happy to help.
Think of them like a great hotel concierge.
Ask the sales representative for suggestions (they're often on commission and can see a guy coming for miles, just kidding).
Judge their suggestions by the type of questions they ask.
If they ask about your wife/girlfriend chances are they're interested in helping you find the right gift.
When shopping on line if you are not sure or need help, go to the contact us section and call or look for live chat and IM them.
Ask for the person to suggest something.
If they don't, find another site that will.
You deserve this level of service.
Make her wish come true Most websites have a wish list feature.
This couldn't be easier for you.
Here's how it works: 1.
She creates a wish list of items she'd die for in the store's wish list feature 2.
She emails the list or list access info to you 3.
You pick/buy the items, (she's worth more than one no? after all she's done half the work) 4.
The store sends the gifts to you! 5.
You're the man! Get in her drawers..
..
and closet If you decide to buy her an outfit or lingerie, make sure you have the right size.
Sneak a peek at her current garments and look for the size on the tag.
Be sure that you find an article that she's worn lately, not something from 1980 when we all might have been a different size! Just do it now! Don't wait until the day before, that's just way too much stress, no one needs that or the lousy gift you'll end up buying under the time pressure.
Getting it done early will ensure it's wrapped and under the tree and you'll have time to enjoy a little Christmas cheer.
If you want it to be a surprise and she's the type that just can't control the urge to peek, pretend that you haven't bought anything yet (torture her just a little).
This will make it even more fun.
A word to the wise be careful not to push this too far.
Amazing what you can learn by "actually" listening While we like to think that we're subtle, and really some of us ladies are but well most of us come close to hitting you over the head with our suggestions.
The next time you're together, listen for these hints - I wish I had a..
..
or wouldn't it be nice if..
...
Gentlemen, these are hints.
Now the key is to write it down so you don't forget.
Other suggestions, if she's on a diet (even if she is absolutely perfect just the way she is) don't buy her chocolate! If she hates cooking and/or cleaning don't even think about it.
On the other hand if she loves chocolate, seek out a rare type (use the internet to source).
If she's passionate about cooking, buy her an appliance she'd never splurge for herself.
On the cleaning front, it's rare to find one of us ladies who actually does like it so safe to say, stay away from cleaning things! Make it personal, a little effort goes a long way Most times we just like to know that you cared enough to make an effort, we'll likely fall in love with it just because you tried.
This is a great suggestion too if you are on a budget.
It doesn't have to cost a lot.
It could be a personal certificate for an evening of romance at home.
Here's one idea is a few easy steps: Prepare a relaxing bath 1.
Run a warm tub with a bath bomb (no we're not talking explosives here, you can get them at Lush or The Body Shop (no not the auto one, the store that sells beauty care products) or just go to the drug store and find bubble bath 2.
Light some candles, pour a glass of wine or martini and play her favourite music 3.
A chance to relax and pamper herself, wow it will likely be the gift that gives back!
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