After all your past relationships, here you are thinking that being with your current girl is a mistake because you don't want to settle! We've all said it, "oh, hell no, there's no way I'm settling with her.
" We usually say it right around the time when we start to think about long-term commitments.
As we sit around pondering about why we won't and can't stick around any longer, we fail to realize that this girl might actually be thinking the same thing.
While we all want to believe that we are God's gift to all relationships; honestly, we're not! So the real question shouldn't be why am I settling, but rather, are they settling? At first, you're most likely thinking that there's no way that your love is settling because you're the man! After all, you've convinced yourself that you are the best thing that has ever happened to her.
As strange as it is, you believe it to be true because she's managed to make you believe that this is the truth, which is why she loves you.
Yet you remain foolish; you really think that you are settling! Love goes a long way, so before we jump out the boat to get our feet wet, we should think about the next girl who will enter our life.
Will she be willing to deal with all of our childish ways? I doubt it! Unfortunately, some of us don't have the courage to overlook flaws, which is why our cheek is always left unturned.
Why do you think we constantly talk about "I wish I knew?" A year later, we will be looking back feeling like we just gave the best girl in the world to some other guy! People have to figure out when they are settling.
An easy way to figure this out is by asking and answering a few questions.
If your friends ask you, "Why are you still with him when you know he is crap?", then yeah, you are settling! If the person who loves you cheats on you, but you find a reason to stay with them, then you are settling! If your friends tell you to stick with him, then they are not really your friends.
In the end, don't ever con yourself into believing that you are getting too old because the losers will definitely be the first pick.
Out of all the relationships in the world, something right must be happening since so many people are still together.
Maybe we have a bunch of people who are just patiently waiting to put an end to their hopeless relationship, or maybe everyone has learned to accept each other's flaws.
Whatever the reason may be, don't be too picky and foolish at the same time; that's just a bad combination! The next time you decide that you shouldn't be with so and so because of this and that, you should ask yourself if they are thinking the same thing.
Of course, I'm not saying that you should give everyone a long-term shot; I'm just saying that sometimes you should open your eyes a little wider because you might not be that special.
If you let the right person fly away because you are picky, you'll soon realize that you were a clown for letting someone like that go! So are you settling or are they settling? I say stop guessing and just ask them the question if you really want to know.
Be careful, you might not like the answer...
" We usually say it right around the time when we start to think about long-term commitments.
As we sit around pondering about why we won't and can't stick around any longer, we fail to realize that this girl might actually be thinking the same thing.
While we all want to believe that we are God's gift to all relationships; honestly, we're not! So the real question shouldn't be why am I settling, but rather, are they settling? At first, you're most likely thinking that there's no way that your love is settling because you're the man! After all, you've convinced yourself that you are the best thing that has ever happened to her.
As strange as it is, you believe it to be true because she's managed to make you believe that this is the truth, which is why she loves you.
Yet you remain foolish; you really think that you are settling! Love goes a long way, so before we jump out the boat to get our feet wet, we should think about the next girl who will enter our life.
Will she be willing to deal with all of our childish ways? I doubt it! Unfortunately, some of us don't have the courage to overlook flaws, which is why our cheek is always left unturned.
Why do you think we constantly talk about "I wish I knew?" A year later, we will be looking back feeling like we just gave the best girl in the world to some other guy! People have to figure out when they are settling.
An easy way to figure this out is by asking and answering a few questions.
If your friends ask you, "Why are you still with him when you know he is crap?", then yeah, you are settling! If the person who loves you cheats on you, but you find a reason to stay with them, then you are settling! If your friends tell you to stick with him, then they are not really your friends.
In the end, don't ever con yourself into believing that you are getting too old because the losers will definitely be the first pick.
Out of all the relationships in the world, something right must be happening since so many people are still together.
Maybe we have a bunch of people who are just patiently waiting to put an end to their hopeless relationship, or maybe everyone has learned to accept each other's flaws.
Whatever the reason may be, don't be too picky and foolish at the same time; that's just a bad combination! The next time you decide that you shouldn't be with so and so because of this and that, you should ask yourself if they are thinking the same thing.
Of course, I'm not saying that you should give everyone a long-term shot; I'm just saying that sometimes you should open your eyes a little wider because you might not be that special.
If you let the right person fly away because you are picky, you'll soon realize that you were a clown for letting someone like that go! So are you settling or are they settling? I say stop guessing and just ask them the question if you really want to know.
Be careful, you might not like the answer...
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