If you have never experienced the pain involved when you lose your girlfriend then read on and I will tell you that I know from personal experience.
Trying to get her back can be almost as bad as losing her.
When you lose your special girl, the one you have fallen in love with, then you must ask yourself what went wrong? Maybe we can analyze this situation because I have been there and done that so to speak.
First, remember the good times.
I suggest you write down on a piece of paper all the things that you shared together in a list so that you can compare them.
Now write down the things that you think might have caused your break up in list form also.
Next, I want you to put the list side by side and look at them very closely and compare the good list to the bad list.
Now ask yourself, did I change or did she change? Have I continued to be faithful with my commitment before the break up or did I lose communication with my ex girlfriend? By being truthful about what might have happened you will see a correlation of why you broke up.
When you first where dating your girlfriend do you remember how you felt inside when seeing her, do you still have that feeling or has that changed? Did you become complacent with her and forgetting to tell her that you appreciate her and love her? Sometimes the little things like telling her that you love her or how much you missed her can cause you're ex girlfriend to question your feelings for her.
Sometimes when we just sit back and relax and use are mind and think sensible about your relationship you can avoid serious conflict and even prevent further damage.
What I suggest doing is to write her a note stating how you have looked at your relationship and realized that you make some mistakes.
If you do not get a response from her then maybe she has moved on with her life.
You have made a sincere and honest evaluation of your relationship and I would bet that she will respond in some way to show you she still cares.
Trying to get her back can be almost as bad as losing her.
When you lose your special girl, the one you have fallen in love with, then you must ask yourself what went wrong? Maybe we can analyze this situation because I have been there and done that so to speak.
First, remember the good times.
I suggest you write down on a piece of paper all the things that you shared together in a list so that you can compare them.
Now write down the things that you think might have caused your break up in list form also.
Next, I want you to put the list side by side and look at them very closely and compare the good list to the bad list.
Now ask yourself, did I change or did she change? Have I continued to be faithful with my commitment before the break up or did I lose communication with my ex girlfriend? By being truthful about what might have happened you will see a correlation of why you broke up.
When you first where dating your girlfriend do you remember how you felt inside when seeing her, do you still have that feeling or has that changed? Did you become complacent with her and forgetting to tell her that you appreciate her and love her? Sometimes the little things like telling her that you love her or how much you missed her can cause you're ex girlfriend to question your feelings for her.
Sometimes when we just sit back and relax and use are mind and think sensible about your relationship you can avoid serious conflict and even prevent further damage.
What I suggest doing is to write her a note stating how you have looked at your relationship and realized that you make some mistakes.
If you do not get a response from her then maybe she has moved on with her life.
You have made a sincere and honest evaluation of your relationship and I would bet that she will respond in some way to show you she still cares.
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