Many times in the heat of an argument or fight, one or both of those involved say things they do not mean. Almost as soon as we say them, we want so bad to take them back. We know we did not mean them, they just came out. Unfortunately, those words have ended your relationship in a break up. You probably are thinking over and over, "she dumped me because I said...". You truly love your ex and are willing to do what you can to get them back. Here are a few suggestions to help get her back.
Time For Healing and Learning
Most people want to quickly get back to their ex after a break up. With emotions still heightened, this is a mistake. Trust me, if there is a good chance that you two can make it through a break up, they are wanting to get back with you just as badly. However, when couples try to get back together right after a break up, they give little time to adequately process what had happened. Trying to brush it under the rug only hides it for the moment.
Before you quickly run back to your ex, take some time apart and look at the bigger picture. If you can understand better why things ended the way they did, then you will be better able to deal with them in the relationship later on. Doing this discovery step alone is beneficial too. There is no judgments placed from another party, like your ex, when you look at everything as a whole. This allows you to freely process the experiences. There will be time to work together at the issues - just later on after you both have had time for healing.
She Dumped Me, I Am So Depressed
Yes, it is an unfortunate fact that break ups put couples through difficult times. We are on top of the world, with the one we love, only to have it all come crashing down. We are left feeling many negative emotions, and usually want to wallow in our sorrows. Yes, you deserve to feel this way. However, this does not play out well in your plan to get your ex back. From a health point of view, it does not do well for you either.
Instead of steeped in negativity, I recommend that you do what you can to enjoy life. Given the choice to be depressed or happy, I think most people would choose the latter. If your ex can see that you are doing well without them, they will realize that your happiness is out of their control - a key step to getting them back. There are many ways to create a happy environment for yourself. You might consider getting together with friends for a night out, or pack up and take a trip to that place you always wished to go. For some people, snuggling up with a favorite author might do the trick. Your goal is to embody a positive spirit, and over time, the negatives that you are feeling from the break up will become less important.
If you have read this far, I can see you are truly committed to getting back your ex. If you love your ex, like I know you do, then I know that if she dumped me, I would do everything I could to get her back. Are you ready to take the steps necessary?
These suggestions are only a start to a process that has helped thousands of people like yourself get through the struggles of a break up. More on the details to getting back an ex can be found on my website, http://getmyexbacktome.com.
Time For Healing and Learning
Most people want to quickly get back to their ex after a break up. With emotions still heightened, this is a mistake. Trust me, if there is a good chance that you two can make it through a break up, they are wanting to get back with you just as badly. However, when couples try to get back together right after a break up, they give little time to adequately process what had happened. Trying to brush it under the rug only hides it for the moment.
Before you quickly run back to your ex, take some time apart and look at the bigger picture. If you can understand better why things ended the way they did, then you will be better able to deal with them in the relationship later on. Doing this discovery step alone is beneficial too. There is no judgments placed from another party, like your ex, when you look at everything as a whole. This allows you to freely process the experiences. There will be time to work together at the issues - just later on after you both have had time for healing.
She Dumped Me, I Am So Depressed
Yes, it is an unfortunate fact that break ups put couples through difficult times. We are on top of the world, with the one we love, only to have it all come crashing down. We are left feeling many negative emotions, and usually want to wallow in our sorrows. Yes, you deserve to feel this way. However, this does not play out well in your plan to get your ex back. From a health point of view, it does not do well for you either.
Instead of steeped in negativity, I recommend that you do what you can to enjoy life. Given the choice to be depressed or happy, I think most people would choose the latter. If your ex can see that you are doing well without them, they will realize that your happiness is out of their control - a key step to getting them back. There are many ways to create a happy environment for yourself. You might consider getting together with friends for a night out, or pack up and take a trip to that place you always wished to go. For some people, snuggling up with a favorite author might do the trick. Your goal is to embody a positive spirit, and over time, the negatives that you are feeling from the break up will become less important.
If you have read this far, I can see you are truly committed to getting back your ex. If you love your ex, like I know you do, then I know that if she dumped me, I would do everything I could to get her back. Are you ready to take the steps necessary?
These suggestions are only a start to a process that has helped thousands of people like yourself get through the struggles of a break up. More on the details to getting back an ex can be found on my website, http://getmyexbacktome.com.
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