Losing the love of your life is a shattering feeling and leaves you in a very fragile state of mind.
If you are having relationship problems or your marriage is on the rocks there are some very important things you need to know and do if you ever want a chance of recovery.
First thing you need to know is that if you are willing to make it work you can, you need to be patient and work though whatever problems you have.
It is very easy to blame each other however this is not a solution and won't solve the problem.
Communication is the best thing for any relationship, communication builds trust and understanding.
If the communication in the relationship has fallen at the way side then you need to do what it takes to open up the channels.
Write a letter if you have to, but a strong word of warning do not call your partner every second and pester them, give them space and let them miss you a little while you get your own head clear.
This is a very emotion time and you don't want to scare them off even more by being too needy and pushy as this is a sure way of killing the relationship all together.
Build the attraction again, remember the time when you first meet and why you to got together in the first, remind your partner of these times.
You also need to have a life on your own, it can very lonely when you first break up with your partner and many people have the feelings that they can't live without them, as much as you want to be back together you need to realise that you can be happy without them and that you are a full person without them, they simply enhance and compliment your life.
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