How to Update Windows XP Through a Network
- 1). Click "Start," "Programs," "Accessories," "Communications" and "Remote Desktop Connection."
- 2). Enter the IP or name of the computer that you wish to update. Click "Connect."
- 3). Enter a username and password for the system. Click "OK."
- 4). Click "Start," "Programs" and "Windows Update" to update the system.
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