Do you often wonder how it is you are supposed to lead him into love? Do you feel like you work and work and work at love with no results from him? Are you wondering if you have put enough time into it? Do you feel like you have put too much time into your relationship without getting the results that you want? Don't give up on him.
While it isn't easy to handle, it should be noted that your man is probably on the verge of falling in love.
You only need to take him by the hand and gently lead him into love.
Old Time Rules.
In the past things were a lot easier for guys.
Relationships were set up with them in mind and the rules were very clear.
Men had fewer things to worry about because they new how to handle the relationship.
Men always asked women on dates.
It never worked the other way around.
Men were the ones that pursued women.
They new what they were doing rather then having women seek after them.
They weren't pressured by the relationship because the relationship moved at the pace that they choose.
Today's rules have given women power.
This can be a good thing, but it can also leave the man feeling like he no longer has the power to control the relationship.
Things move at hyper speed because women like moving that fast.
But it is hard for a slower moving man to handle.
Secrets to Help Your Man Fall In Love With You.
With the old rules in mind it should be noted that they had a lot of advantages.
They really worked for men because the rules were similar to the way that men work.
So, you can take that understanding and use it to work for you and to help you gently lead him into love.
1.
Look your best.
Start your relationship by looking the best that you possibly can.
Work on attracting his attention.
2.
Let him ask you.
When it comes to asking you out on a date, let him lead by asking you.
Look attractive and draw his attention, but make sure that you let him be in charge.
3.
Keep it light.
Let the relationship stay light.
This will make them more comfortable.
Don't come on to heavy or too strong.
4.
Let him move the pace of the relationship.
His pace is sure to be a whole lot slower then yours.
So let him control the pace of the relationship so that he feels more comfortable.
5.
Create a secure atmosphere.
Men can become worried if they feel pressured or insecure.
Let him feel secure that the relationship is safe while making sure he doesn't feel pressured into anything.
He is more likely to open up to you if he doesn't feel like you are pressuring him.
6.
Finally, wait for him.
If he is a great guy then he is definitely worth waiting for.
Show him that he is worth it, by not expecting him to move at your pace.
Give him time to figure out how he feels without any pressure.
These six secrets will take you back a little.
It isn't that you don't have the power to be a strong woman, it is that men need women to meet their psychological needs as well as their relationship needs.
If you follow these six secrets to giving your man power in your relationship then you will gently lead him into love.