Your marriage has fallen apart, but you still love your ex wife very much.
It doesn't matter how long a couple has been married, the love that both of you felt for each other will be there forever, although it may be hidden deep inside.
When you want to get your ex wife back, here are some things you must never do, or you will only push her further away from you.
Don't think it is going to happen overnight.
When relationships or marriages end, it usually took a while to get that bad.
If you want to rebuild a relationship with your ex wife, it is not going to happen overnight.
That's ok, though, because you want to build a LASTING new relationship with her, right? Both of you made mistakes in your marriage.
Accept the fact that you made mistakes, and be willing to change those things.
Forgive your ex wife for the mistakes that she made.
If you don't forgive her, you won't be able to heal from the hurt, and you will bring that pain into your new relationship with her.
Don't beg her to take you back, and NEVER belittle yourself.
Your ex wife married you for who you are.
She doesn't want you to change, she just couldn't deal with how your marriage was.
Make sure that you really do want her back for the right reasons.
If you only want her back because you are afraid of what else is out there, then rethink your actions.
If the two of you get back together because you are comfortable with each other, and are afraid to date other people, then you will only wind up in a relationship that will end badly again.
When you know, deep in your heart, that you want your ex wife back, there are ways to do that.
While it is OK to call her to see how she's doing, it is NOT OK to hound her.
Don't call her day and night, or email her or text her.
This will surely turn her away more.
Once in a while is ok, but not too often, especially in the beginning.
Keep in mind that she may not answer you right away.
Especially if the two of you just recently broke up, there is still a lot of pain to be dealt with.
She will get back in touch with you, but when she's ready.
When you love your ex wife, and want her back in your life, ease into it.
For both your sakes.
If you rush it, chances are good that you will never get her back.
Take your time, and cherish every second that the two of you share together.
Whether on the phone, in person, or email, text, etc.
You will see that you will talk to each other more often, and both of you will start to remember the good times in your marriage.
When you DO start to see her again, don't bring up the bad memories.
Keeping the good memories fresh in her mind is how you will win her back.