How do you make him fall in love with you? What is it in male psychology that makes it so hard for them to fall in love? Have you fallen in love and want a special guy to fall for you? If so, you've got your work cut out for you.
You're going to have to work with him (not against him) to make him fall in love with you.
Women are far more emotional than men.
Men are primarily rational creatures and, except for maybe when it comes to sex, they always have to think things through.
Sometimes they never stop thinking.
They know they feel something for a girl, but they don't exactly know what it is - often until it's too late.
What you need to do in order to make him fall in love is get him to start listening to his heart instead of his head.
If you've been going out for awhile, you know he's interested.
If he goes out of his way to be with you even when you're not out on a formal date, you know he's more than just interested in you.
What's going on in his head that is making him unable to fall in love with you or admit to himself that he has? Usually, his thoughts revolve around commitment.
If he commits to you, he will lose his freedom.
If he commits to you, he may end up marrying you and having a family with you.
Will you be faithful to him? Does he really want to spend the rest of his life with you? Will it hurt his career? Will he never see his friends again? Now that you have an idea about what he may be thinking about, you can work with him to ease his doubts and fears.
If he is close to commitment, don't flirt with other guys.
That will break any bonds of trust you may have built up with him.
Make him know that what he sees is what he gets.
He's attracted to you as you are, so don't try to change yourself for him.
This will let him know that you're not going to change as soon as he gets in deep.
Above all, make him realize that if he lets himself fall in love with you, he will get far more than he loses.
Men think they're being rational when really they're just being afraid.
Once you have gained his trust, he will stop being afraid, start listening to his heart and let love in.
The idea of living with you will suddenly "make sense" to him.
Work with him to make him fall in love with you if you are sure he's the man for you and you are the girl for him.
You're going to have to work with him (not against him) to make him fall in love with you.
Women are far more emotional than men.
Men are primarily rational creatures and, except for maybe when it comes to sex, they always have to think things through.
Sometimes they never stop thinking.
They know they feel something for a girl, but they don't exactly know what it is - often until it's too late.
What you need to do in order to make him fall in love is get him to start listening to his heart instead of his head.
If you've been going out for awhile, you know he's interested.
If he goes out of his way to be with you even when you're not out on a formal date, you know he's more than just interested in you.
What's going on in his head that is making him unable to fall in love with you or admit to himself that he has? Usually, his thoughts revolve around commitment.
If he commits to you, he will lose his freedom.
If he commits to you, he may end up marrying you and having a family with you.
Will you be faithful to him? Does he really want to spend the rest of his life with you? Will it hurt his career? Will he never see his friends again? Now that you have an idea about what he may be thinking about, you can work with him to ease his doubts and fears.
If he is close to commitment, don't flirt with other guys.
That will break any bonds of trust you may have built up with him.
Make him know that what he sees is what he gets.
He's attracted to you as you are, so don't try to change yourself for him.
This will let him know that you're not going to change as soon as he gets in deep.
Above all, make him realize that if he lets himself fall in love with you, he will get far more than he loses.
Men think they're being rational when really they're just being afraid.
Once you have gained his trust, he will stop being afraid, start listening to his heart and let love in.
The idea of living with you will suddenly "make sense" to him.
Work with him to make him fall in love with you if you are sure he's the man for you and you are the girl for him.
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