Are you discouraged by the state of your love life and you'd like to meet a great guy and make him fall in love with you? Have you put so much time into your career that you've never paid attention to romance and now you feel you've been left behind? Is your pragmatic and professional approach to everything hindering your ability to simply have a fun date with a guy? Romance doesn't always come easy, nor does it come quick.
Read on to see what you can do and what to expect.
There's no getting around it; men like to be visually stimulated.
But does that mean that you have to go out dressed like a tramp to catch his attention? Absolutely not.
For one thing, while many men might fantasize about the pinup in the girly magazine, few of them actually want her for his girlfriend.
They want a real woman.
Secondly, guys out there aren't all attracted to the same type of woman.
There's someone for everyone.
Ensure that you simply look your best and that the look you put together represents well what you want to tell the men around you.
Approachable, fun, and easy to talk to are all qualities that will have men gravitating towards you, so avoid stiff clothing that makes you look matronly and severe.
Then simply relax and enjoy a pleasant conversation with him.
Don't have your mental agenda on hand as you plot out your next move.
Just enjoy the moment and let the conversation flow in a way that has you discovering who he is while you give him glimpses of who you are.
As you continue to date, put the emphasis on how you make him feel when he's around you.
He'll appreciate that you can listen to him and will also enjoy the fact that you show your admiration for him.
Don't get into a competitive mood with him, but let him know that you think highly of him.
And no matter what you do, keep the pressure off.
Even if things aren't moving along as quickly as you'd hope, remember to give him some time.
He'll fall in love with you at his own pace.