If you see signs of a breakup looming on the horizon, you must act now to avoid a very tragic occurrence.
The most notable sign is that of constant arguing and fighting. OK, it's fun to make up, but not if it doesn't happen and all you are doing is making enemies of one another. This behavior leads to ignoring one another which is as painful as the breakup itself.
Notice if your partner seems to prefer the company of others to yours. Granted, we all need our own friends with which to spend occasional time. The trouble arises when there is more time spent with their friends than with their partner and families.
If you see trouble ahead, deal with it now, but in a nice way. Put the children to bed (or hire a babysitter) and go to a restaurant to discuss issues in a civil way. In a public place, you are less likely to have the conversation decline into a shouting match.
Do not make accusations that end up ruining the evening. Stay calm and dicuss things rationally. Ask questions as to how your partner feels about certain factors in the relationship or if they feel a need for improvement in certain areas. By listening to their response you will improve the chances of saving your relationship, even if some of what you hear may be unpleasant.
Your problems will probably not be solved in the course of an evening, but it will be a good start and one worthy of repeating when circumstances permit. In the interim you must reassure each other of the mutual bond of love and respect which you believe is worth saving.
Acknowledgement and action taken before it is too late are key to saving a relationship when the signs of a breakup are looming.
If your relationship is in trouble or if you would like to make an OK relationship into a GREAT one, "The Magic of Making Up" is a must read. It has helped over 50,000 people in 77 countries whose relationships might otherwise have been doomed to failure. "The Magic of Making Up" is a proven and easy to follow means of solving problems in relationships.
To read "The Magic of Making Up" in its entirety, just click to:
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The most notable sign is that of constant arguing and fighting. OK, it's fun to make up, but not if it doesn't happen and all you are doing is making enemies of one another. This behavior leads to ignoring one another which is as painful as the breakup itself.
Notice if your partner seems to prefer the company of others to yours. Granted, we all need our own friends with which to spend occasional time. The trouble arises when there is more time spent with their friends than with their partner and families.
If you see trouble ahead, deal with it now, but in a nice way. Put the children to bed (or hire a babysitter) and go to a restaurant to discuss issues in a civil way. In a public place, you are less likely to have the conversation decline into a shouting match.
Do not make accusations that end up ruining the evening. Stay calm and dicuss things rationally. Ask questions as to how your partner feels about certain factors in the relationship or if they feel a need for improvement in certain areas. By listening to their response you will improve the chances of saving your relationship, even if some of what you hear may be unpleasant.
Your problems will probably not be solved in the course of an evening, but it will be a good start and one worthy of repeating when circumstances permit. In the interim you must reassure each other of the mutual bond of love and respect which you believe is worth saving.
Acknowledgement and action taken before it is too late are key to saving a relationship when the signs of a breakup are looming.
If your relationship is in trouble or if you would like to make an OK relationship into a GREAT one, "The Magic of Making Up" is a must read. It has helped over 50,000 people in 77 countries whose relationships might otherwise have been doomed to failure. "The Magic of Making Up" is a proven and easy to follow means of solving problems in relationships.
To read "The Magic of Making Up" in its entirety, just click to:
http://clarkfan1.makingup.hop.Clickbank.net
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