It's a common question: how intimate should I be with my ex if I want to get him back?The answer may surprise you, because it's not really what you'd probably expect.
Fact is, the biggest risk for failing to reconcile with your ex isn't lack of intimacy, but excess of intimacy.
Right now, it's actually far better of an idea to back off and give him some alone time than it is to be there with him.
Lots of women worldwide don't know this, and do their best to stay as close to their ex as possible in the hopes that the care and compassion will draw him back into a fully-committed relationship again.
This isn't how it works.
Being too close to each other will only hinder the healing process, actually.
At the beginning, being close will just allow for more damage to arise from emotional fights that spring up...
and afterwards, it'll feel like not much has changed for him.
He won't be motivated to get you back, because he'll never have felt like he was really without you.
To make him want to get back together, first he needs to miss you and realize what life is like without you.
So let him go, girls...
even if just for a little while.
Clinging too close will only make things worse.
Make him realize that if he wants you in his life, he has to be in for the real deal and not just "friends with benefits and no commitment.
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