First off, my condolences for the difficult path you are currently treading.
Whether you and your husband drifted apart...
Or your husband left you...
or you're both on the verge of filing for divorce and you're trying to salvage your marriage.
Whatever the reason, you want your husband back today, and it is possible...
even if you are the only one making the effort to save the marriage, there are ways to get back husband.
You need to first learn about and avoid the following errors trying to get back husband.
There are many words and actions that you will feel compelled to say and do, which has tried, but you must avoid them at all costs.
1.
Don't bombard him with phone calls and text messages.
If you call him and he doesn't pick up, do not keep calling him time and time again.
Have patience.
Wait until he calls you back.
Wait a few days if needs be.
Don't let the anxiety overwhelm you.
2.
Don't get involved with arguments over the phone.
You both already know the issues involved that instigated the separation, but do not use them as a weapon when talking to him on the phone.
Your husband will immediately assume the reason you called was to get back at him, rather than getting him back.
3.
Avoid panic and depression.
It will be difficult in the first few days, but I implore you not to call back too soon after separation.
Allow 2 weeks to pass, and bring your emotional well-being into check during this time.
Take a weekend break, if necessary.
4.
Again, if you are on the phone with him and ask for a first date, do not to say how the love him and need him.
In addition, avoid long, drawn out dates that last the entire day.
Instead, go for a brief lunch.
5.
When he agrees to meet up for a date, don't drag up the past and don't over-analyze over what went wrong.
This date is meant to be light and fun and not distressing.
Men generally like to be with people who are fun to be with, so relax and allow the relationship to rebuild positively.