Many a time wives have been wondering aloud as to what men really want from them.
The reason for this is that they say that despite all the efforts they have made to satisfy their husbands, yet their husbands seem not to be satisfied.
It maybe that many wives have tried their utmost best to please their husbands, but there are things that may be lacking in them that make their husbands not getting fully satisfied with them.
For the benefit of wives or would be wives, here comes the summary of the type of wives husbands say they want to have.
In this article we are going to see 14 most prominent tips on the type of wives husbands say they want.
If these are taken seriously by the wives and women in general, there will certainly be great positive changes in the husbands and wives relationships.
1.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that are always obedient.
Husbands say they want the types of wives that are always obedient to them.
They are saying that they want wives that are not only obedient, but also submissive to them.
Even the Bible gave such injunction to wives that they should be obedient to their husbands.
No husband would like to have a wife that does not obey him.
They want wives that would be obeying their instructions in all aspects except when the instructions are bad and unacceptable to God and humanity.
Even in such cases, those bad instructions should be rejected with cogent explanations and with humility.
It is therefore necessary that wives should submit themselves to their husbands and be obedient in order to get the most out of their husbands.
There is no husband that will not appreciate a wife that is obedient to him.
2.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that show gratitude and appreciation, and give praise to them as and when necessary.
It is very necessary that when a husband has done something good for the wife, she should show appreciation to the husband and even praise him when something extra-ordinary has been done by the husband.
It is very much saddening when a wife shows ingratitude to the husband especially when the husband had spent time, energy and money to do something to please the wife or for the benefit of the wife.
Wives should therefore take note that it is saddening as well as discouraging when you don't show to your husbands appreciation and gratitude for all the love showered on you and efforts made by your husbands to keep and sustain you.
Husbands are all saying that they want wives that show gratitude and appreciation at all times.
3.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that are loyal and respectful, look up to them and believe them.
The loyalty and respect for the husband are highly needed by husbands.
Like obedience, husbands want to be respected by their wives.
They also solicit for loyalty by their wives.
A wife is not expected to be going contrary to the instructions and wishes of her husband except when that instruction or wishes are evil or contrary to God's word.
A wife is meant to look up to her husband and believe her husband.
It is very unfortunate that many wives don't show loyalty and respect to their husbands.
Loyalty and respect are part of the keys to husbands loving their wives and taking good care of them.
Without loyalty and respect it will be very difficult for a wife to get the heart of her husband.
So, such types of wives are wanted by husbands.
4.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that are with them in their works, share their goals and interests, and stand by them in times of difficulties.
A wife is supposed to be interested in what her husband is doing to earn a living.
She should share in the goals, aims and interests of her husband and lend a helping hand when and where it is needed.
A wife is supposed to encourage her husband when things are difficult or when things are going wrong as unexpected.
This would endear her to her husband.
Sharing in the interest and goals of the husband especially as it concerns the source of earning his income will always endear a wife to her husband and that will also make the wife give her advice and encouragement when it is necessary.
Any wife that is not doing this should take note.
5.
Husbands say they want the type of wives who are companions and friends to them.
A wife is meant to be a companion and a friend to the husband in this journey of life.
A wife should be a companion to the husband in the true sense of it.
She should be a friend to the husband in the true sense of it.
A friend shares the joy and sadness of his/her friend and gives advice when necessary.
A wife is a partner, a friend, a mate, and a lover to her husband.
And when she assumes the above responsibilities, she automatically becomes his companion.
In doing this she keeps her husband always happy.
Not many wives realize this.
By keeping away from their husbands wives would be creating avenue for suspicion.
Husbands say they want such type of wives that are both companions and friends to them.
6 Husband say they want the type of wives that understand them.
Every husband wants a wife that understands him in all he does.
It is always a painful experience for a man to have a wife that does not understand him even when he is trying all his best to please and satisfy his wife.
No one is perfect.
There are differences in reasoning, thoughts, characters and methods of doing things.
Any wife who does not understand this cannot understand the husband.
It is very necessary that a wife should understand fully her husband.
This can be done by careful study of the husband, knowing what he likes and what he does not like.
7.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that encourage them as to bring out the best in them.
This agrees with the saying that behind any successful man is a woman.
This is what every man wants-a wife that will be behind his success in life, a wife that will help to make him what he is.
Such a wife will be a pride to her husband.
Every man wants to be encouraged by his wife when things are going right and even when things are not going as expected.
At those difficult times husbands need encouragement in order to overcome the hard times.
But when a wife adds to the problem of the husband by her attitudes, talks and behavior, the situation becomes more unbearable to the husband.
It is pleasing to the husband to see his wife encouraging him to success even when odds are in the way.
Husbands say they are in want of such type of wives.
8.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that complement them in their efforts to sustain their families.
No man will be happy seeing his wife folding her hands when the husband is struggling to sustain his family.
Some wives hold the erroneous notion that only the husband is meant to sustain the family.
The husband is not the only person to sustain the family because God has made both of you to be one by your joining together as husband and wife.
Both of you have become partners or mates to share your responsibilities for the overall benefit and sustenance your family.
It is very clear that some wives earn more income than their husbands.
In this case the contribution of the wife towards the upkeep of the home can be greater than that of the husband.
If this type of situation exists, the wife can handle it with joy and happiness and not with grudges.
Husbands say they want such types of wives that complement their efforts in all they do.
9.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that are good home makers.
Husband say they want the type of wives that can take good care of the children in terms of training, advice, cleanliness, good food preparation, tidiness and cleanliness of home and the environs.
Every husband wants a wife that is a discreet and wise mother to the children.
10.
Husbands say they want wives that they can be proud of and attractive wives both spiritually and physically.
A wife that is attractive both spiritually and physically is a source of joy to the husband.
Her husband is always fond of her.
Men love to have attractive women physically, but when that attractiveness doesn't reach inside of the woman, it becomes a curse to the man.
It is therefore necessary that a wife should be attractive both inside and outside.
She is a wonderful wife that is attractive both inside and outside.
11.
Husbands say they want wives that trust them.
Distrusting the husband by the wife brings crisis in the relationship and can cause marriage breakdowns.
No husband will like to have a wife that distrusts him in every movement he makes.
It is natural to be jealous.
No body will like to have his/her spouse to be shared with another man or woman but where this is carried to the crisis point, it becomes a different thing else.
Distrust brings marriage breakdowns.
12.
Husbands say they want the type of wives who will be good managers or co-managers of the family budget.
This will help in controlling and managing effectively the finances of the family.
Many wives are known for their frugality in managing their family resources.
On the other hand many wives are waste pipes when it comes to spending the hard earned money of their husbands.
They don't think about savings or investment.
Husbands want wives that can manage their family budgets very effectively.
13.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that truly LOVE them as well as satisfy them sexually and romantically.
Men love sex and would like to have it whenever they are in need of it.
It will be very frustrating for a husband to be denied of sex if and when he is in need of it.
Just like men, women also love sex.
So, no woman would be happy when her husband starves her of sex.
14.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that are faithful to them, wives that love God as well as God-fearing.
Husbands want very badly faithful wives-wives that would not give themselves to other men.
God-fearing women don't give themselves to other men.
The above are the types of wives men say they want.
Although they may not be exhaustive but they constitute the major types that husbands say they want as their wives.
The reason for this is that they say that despite all the efforts they have made to satisfy their husbands, yet their husbands seem not to be satisfied.
It maybe that many wives have tried their utmost best to please their husbands, but there are things that may be lacking in them that make their husbands not getting fully satisfied with them.
For the benefit of wives or would be wives, here comes the summary of the type of wives husbands say they want to have.
In this article we are going to see 14 most prominent tips on the type of wives husbands say they want.
If these are taken seriously by the wives and women in general, there will certainly be great positive changes in the husbands and wives relationships.
1.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that are always obedient.
Husbands say they want the types of wives that are always obedient to them.
They are saying that they want wives that are not only obedient, but also submissive to them.
Even the Bible gave such injunction to wives that they should be obedient to their husbands.
No husband would like to have a wife that does not obey him.
They want wives that would be obeying their instructions in all aspects except when the instructions are bad and unacceptable to God and humanity.
Even in such cases, those bad instructions should be rejected with cogent explanations and with humility.
It is therefore necessary that wives should submit themselves to their husbands and be obedient in order to get the most out of their husbands.
There is no husband that will not appreciate a wife that is obedient to him.
2.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that show gratitude and appreciation, and give praise to them as and when necessary.
It is very necessary that when a husband has done something good for the wife, she should show appreciation to the husband and even praise him when something extra-ordinary has been done by the husband.
It is very much saddening when a wife shows ingratitude to the husband especially when the husband had spent time, energy and money to do something to please the wife or for the benefit of the wife.
Wives should therefore take note that it is saddening as well as discouraging when you don't show to your husbands appreciation and gratitude for all the love showered on you and efforts made by your husbands to keep and sustain you.
Husbands are all saying that they want wives that show gratitude and appreciation at all times.
3.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that are loyal and respectful, look up to them and believe them.
The loyalty and respect for the husband are highly needed by husbands.
Like obedience, husbands want to be respected by their wives.
They also solicit for loyalty by their wives.
A wife is not expected to be going contrary to the instructions and wishes of her husband except when that instruction or wishes are evil or contrary to God's word.
A wife is meant to look up to her husband and believe her husband.
It is very unfortunate that many wives don't show loyalty and respect to their husbands.
Loyalty and respect are part of the keys to husbands loving their wives and taking good care of them.
Without loyalty and respect it will be very difficult for a wife to get the heart of her husband.
So, such types of wives are wanted by husbands.
4.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that are with them in their works, share their goals and interests, and stand by them in times of difficulties.
A wife is supposed to be interested in what her husband is doing to earn a living.
She should share in the goals, aims and interests of her husband and lend a helping hand when and where it is needed.
A wife is supposed to encourage her husband when things are difficult or when things are going wrong as unexpected.
This would endear her to her husband.
Sharing in the interest and goals of the husband especially as it concerns the source of earning his income will always endear a wife to her husband and that will also make the wife give her advice and encouragement when it is necessary.
Any wife that is not doing this should take note.
5.
Husbands say they want the type of wives who are companions and friends to them.
A wife is meant to be a companion and a friend to the husband in this journey of life.
A wife should be a companion to the husband in the true sense of it.
She should be a friend to the husband in the true sense of it.
A friend shares the joy and sadness of his/her friend and gives advice when necessary.
A wife is a partner, a friend, a mate, and a lover to her husband.
And when she assumes the above responsibilities, she automatically becomes his companion.
In doing this she keeps her husband always happy.
Not many wives realize this.
By keeping away from their husbands wives would be creating avenue for suspicion.
Husbands say they want such type of wives that are both companions and friends to them.
6 Husband say they want the type of wives that understand them.
Every husband wants a wife that understands him in all he does.
It is always a painful experience for a man to have a wife that does not understand him even when he is trying all his best to please and satisfy his wife.
No one is perfect.
There are differences in reasoning, thoughts, characters and methods of doing things.
Any wife who does not understand this cannot understand the husband.
It is very necessary that a wife should understand fully her husband.
This can be done by careful study of the husband, knowing what he likes and what he does not like.
7.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that encourage them as to bring out the best in them.
This agrees with the saying that behind any successful man is a woman.
This is what every man wants-a wife that will be behind his success in life, a wife that will help to make him what he is.
Such a wife will be a pride to her husband.
Every man wants to be encouraged by his wife when things are going right and even when things are not going as expected.
At those difficult times husbands need encouragement in order to overcome the hard times.
But when a wife adds to the problem of the husband by her attitudes, talks and behavior, the situation becomes more unbearable to the husband.
It is pleasing to the husband to see his wife encouraging him to success even when odds are in the way.
Husbands say they are in want of such type of wives.
8.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that complement them in their efforts to sustain their families.
No man will be happy seeing his wife folding her hands when the husband is struggling to sustain his family.
Some wives hold the erroneous notion that only the husband is meant to sustain the family.
The husband is not the only person to sustain the family because God has made both of you to be one by your joining together as husband and wife.
Both of you have become partners or mates to share your responsibilities for the overall benefit and sustenance your family.
It is very clear that some wives earn more income than their husbands.
In this case the contribution of the wife towards the upkeep of the home can be greater than that of the husband.
If this type of situation exists, the wife can handle it with joy and happiness and not with grudges.
Husbands say they want such types of wives that complement their efforts in all they do.
9.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that are good home makers.
Husband say they want the type of wives that can take good care of the children in terms of training, advice, cleanliness, good food preparation, tidiness and cleanliness of home and the environs.
Every husband wants a wife that is a discreet and wise mother to the children.
10.
Husbands say they want wives that they can be proud of and attractive wives both spiritually and physically.
A wife that is attractive both spiritually and physically is a source of joy to the husband.
Her husband is always fond of her.
Men love to have attractive women physically, but when that attractiveness doesn't reach inside of the woman, it becomes a curse to the man.
It is therefore necessary that a wife should be attractive both inside and outside.
She is a wonderful wife that is attractive both inside and outside.
11.
Husbands say they want wives that trust them.
Distrusting the husband by the wife brings crisis in the relationship and can cause marriage breakdowns.
No husband will like to have a wife that distrusts him in every movement he makes.
It is natural to be jealous.
No body will like to have his/her spouse to be shared with another man or woman but where this is carried to the crisis point, it becomes a different thing else.
Distrust brings marriage breakdowns.
12.
Husbands say they want the type of wives who will be good managers or co-managers of the family budget.
This will help in controlling and managing effectively the finances of the family.
Many wives are known for their frugality in managing their family resources.
On the other hand many wives are waste pipes when it comes to spending the hard earned money of their husbands.
They don't think about savings or investment.
Husbands want wives that can manage their family budgets very effectively.
13.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that truly LOVE them as well as satisfy them sexually and romantically.
Men love sex and would like to have it whenever they are in need of it.
It will be very frustrating for a husband to be denied of sex if and when he is in need of it.
Just like men, women also love sex.
So, no woman would be happy when her husband starves her of sex.
14.
Husbands say they want the type of wives that are faithful to them, wives that love God as well as God-fearing.
Husbands want very badly faithful wives-wives that would not give themselves to other men.
God-fearing women don't give themselves to other men.
The above are the types of wives men say they want.
Although they may not be exhaustive but they constitute the major types that husbands say they want as their wives.
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