If your marriage is in trouble and you want to save it, you've probably been crying out inside, "Stop my divorce!" The first thing you should know is that no marriage is beyond help.
Any relationship can be saved.
You just have to want it badly enough.
You also have to follow the right steps to save it.
Fortunately, there is a proven, effective plan for marriage success out there.
Another important thing to remember is to avoid the things that sabotage your chances of a happy marriage.
If you really want to "stop my divorce," then you need to be aware of what you must NOT do.
Doing either of these two things can make it much more difficult for you to achieve the success you want so badly.
1.
Don't go into marriage rescue mode without a plan.
You can not leave this all up to chance, and guessing will get you nowhere.
Just think about it.
The things you've been doing so far have not been successful, have they? So why continue to do the same unsuccessful things? It just doesn't make sense.
You need to follow a detailed plan, preferably one that was designed by a marriage professional, and one that has been tested and proven to work.
This plan should essentially be a blueprint you can follow step by step.
Don¼t reinvent the wheel when the work has all been done for you.
2.
Don't become a victim to inaction.
Too often, we become overwhelmed by the enormity of saving a marriage, and just can't bring ourselves to do anything.
It's a kind of emotional paralysis, and it's common.
However, you have to do something if you want to save your marriage.
You can't just sit back and hope things will resolve themselves.
Even if you just take one action today, that action will give you confidence that you CAN do something, which will make further actions easier.